Why your dog seems anxious around other dogs!

Anxiety is a massive word that's thrown around when we talk about our dogs, so let's debunk some of the reasons behind it.

Nine times out of ten, your dog isn't actually anxious. They're simply unsure and finding it difficult to predict what is going to happen. There can be a lot of pressure involved when they're in close proximity to other dogs, and this uncertainty is often mistaken for anxiety.

If you're asking this question, your dog probably lacks a lot of confidence, and that's okay. In social settings, they may feel a lot of pressure from other dogs. This is completely normal. Not every dog has to love other dogs, but what really matters is that they are as neutral as possible.

Neutrality is when your dog is indifferent and doesn't care about the other dog. This doesn't mean they have to be completely comfortable, but it does mean they aren't reacting negatively by lunging, barking, or growling.

When it comes to building confidence around other dogs, it actually has very little to do with direct interactions. It's much more about coexisting with them. Your dog learning to simply relax while other dogs are around allows those dogs and their behaviour to become predictable, which helps prevent them from feeling overwhelmed.

A couple of things to consider: most, if not all, male dogs aren't particularly fond of unfamiliar male dogs invading their space. This is biologically driven, as male dogs naturally compete for breeding opportunities. Ask yourself, are you helping your dog through those awkward interactions when another dog sniffs them or pushes past them? Being able to redirect your dog's attention is one of the most important things you can do. It shows them you're advocating for them while also building their confidence by giving them something else to focus on.

So, learn to read your dog's body language in difficult situations.

Is their body becoming stiff?

Are they licking their lips?

Is their tail tucked?

These are all signs that it's time to intervene, advocate for your dog's space, and show them what you'd like them to do instead. Over time, their confidence around other dogs will grow because you're teaching them they aren't trapped in those situations and that you'll support them.

If you want help building your dog's confidence around other dogs in a controlled environment, check out my Discovery Pack Walks. They're structured pack walks designed to teach your dog how to behave calmly and confidently around others.

Fun fact: out of all the dogs I see, neutered males are often among the most nervous or unsure around other dogs. Testosterone can play a role in confidence and social behaviour, so for some dogs, neutering may influence this. It's one of the reasons it's worth carefully considering the timing of neutering, particularly if your dog is already nervous. It's always best to discuss the pros and cons with your vet based on your individual dog's behaviour and circumstances.